Russian women go out of fashion among foreigners

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Russian women go out of fashion among foreigners

Сообщение HainanWel.com(e)! » 15 июн 2016, 13:49

Get married to a Russian woman - holy

Let's be honest: very few people like to feel like an object rather than a subject. But the man for the Russian women - is the object: its goal - to get married. Wear a white dress and get a coveted stamp in the passport. Man in itself it is of little interest, it is only interested in his own situation: she married or not. At the beginning of zero when abroad suddenly poured a flood of "Russian brides", foreigners were jubilant: here they are, the perfect woman! Women are still able to love sincerely and honestly! Women who just love almost any disadvantages: love - and that's that! Will get married! Not that feministichnaya Europeans and American: the same feelings Give tested, long-term partnership, and only then - marriage. May be. If a man would be ideal. Russian woman is not so. Russian woman - a perfect wife!

But then it became clear that this beautiful fairy tale - a tale indeed. Russian woman needs not the man she needed marriage. The sooner it will become "a married wife" - the better, and so she agreed to everything. And in that moment, when not spoiled female affection foreigners to understand what is happening in reality - Russian wife began to go out of fashion. Because few people want to connect a life with a woman, for which you - not a man, and status. Conditional husband. Free application for printing and ring.

Russian woman is not capable of partnership

Man is always something owed her, on the simple grounds that he is a man. Most Russians still prefer to endow men with certain qualities ( "getter", "defender", "stone wall"), without asking, actually, the men themselves. The way in which the average Russian woman understands the definition of "joint budget" - a vivid illustration of this attitude: her money - it's her money, and his money - it's "our". Russian woman is sure that she earns "Statement on the pin," and the entire financial responsibility for the family to bear the husband. And, in addition, he is obliged to pay all its major purchases (the same coat - certainly!).

But, however, it is not just about money. The point is generally equal partnership that Russian woman denies. "My husband - the head of the wife - the neck." "A wise woman knows how to get his," and so on. Honest, open relations on an equal footing - not her story. She needs to create the appearance of parent-child relationship, where the parent - in charge of all her husband, and she - a helpless child. Allegedly. In fact, she wants to control her husband, but so that it is in any case not realized what was happening. Of course, this clumsy game is visible at once, but Russian men she usually arranges. Foreigners - absolutely not. They believe such behavior manipulation, and they are quite right, of course.

Russian woman for a man ruthless

Absolutely ruthless. Russian women themselves believe in the myth of the self-sacrifice of his own readiness to receive any man, as they do not throw good for nothing husband: alcoholics, unemployed, domestic tyrants, and even crazy. Only they are willing to endure anything for the sake of marriage and for the sake of that love, which once began a relationship. That's before she loved this man, and now she felt sorry for him. He's lost without it! Did someone else but Russian women capable of this?

In fact, this is called codependency. A man must be a poor woman to be good. It must be intolerable to all around her were sorry, he must suffer, that it was comforting, but at the same time be the culprit, so she became a judge. The white coat. These painful relationship Russian woman revels in decades - rather than to engage in their own lives. So, in fact, a Russian woman does not save a dependent man - it drowns it depends, to be able to "carry his cross." And then it falls off the shoulders else - and that it will then be done?

Russian woman marries together with the whole family

An alien who has decided to tie the life of a Russian woman should understand that from now on he will be closely linked with all her family. First of all - with her mom. Anecdotes about the wife's mother - it is a reality, it is not clear a person living in a different paradigm. The average European or American "flying out of the nest" early enough and more to non-refundable. He is friends with his parents, but lives his life, a Russian woman remains "my mother's daughter" as long as she has a mother. And that means that her husband will also be my mother. Her mother. Mom have to maintain, even if the mother has a husband who seems like it should - because it is likely that most "heavy cross", which carries a lifetime mom. Mom should be protected, because it will bring up grandchildren. You can not just go and hire a nanny, a child must be a native person, even if this is the native person brings your baby is completely wrong, do not you dare to object: the same mother!

And a father, brothers and sisters, grandparents except for mum - complete, if not very lucky. Not lucky husband of a Russian woman, of course. Because the family - her and care for her, he should now. The very Russian woman hanging on the relatives of her husband's neck, not willing to help and get help. First and foremost, of course, from my mother, which at the time of birth of the first grandchild must end once and for all personal life.

Russian woman - a mother-heroine

This motherhood Russian woman perceives as a daily feat. She is a mother! She had made a heroic act! The very fact of birth allegedly entitles zabronzovet slightly, but this is only the beginning: now she will put life on the altar of motherhood and will require honors. And while it will jealously protect the child from the father, the child needs a mother! She is horrified by the notion of "the father on leave to care for a child." It's impossible! In this release, it should be just - and as long as the child does not finish primary school. By this time, by the way, it is possible to have a second, thus extending your vacation for another decade.

Modern fathers are willing to take part in the upbringing of children. They are not afraid of no sleepless nights, no dirty diapers or children's illness, nor the first battle in the sandbox. "Dad can!" - This fact Russian woman carefully ignored, but worse than the other: she refuses to understand that the Pope still wants. Modern dad, who grew up outside of Russia, really wants to be the most complete parent their children and refuses to be content with the role of the sperm donor and the getter material goods. But a Russian woman would not allow it: Motherhood for her - the only chance to be realized. It seriously calls it "the main purpose of a woman" and a man, as it were, and is not involved. Motherhood in Russia is, paternity - no. There are only a fatherless (often "When living a father!" - And who, I ask, is to blame, right?). Russian woman does not allow her husband to be a parent, because the power of a child - it is the only available power. Implement or she can not, because I do not want to know. So a man who chooses a wife Russian, should be ready for the fact that children will be, as it were, and not his. They just my mother. And it is quite natural that the modern man does not suit such a situation - if they are not Russian, of course.

Russian woman does not know how to be happy

And it is - the most important thing. Happiness for Russian women - not a state but a goal. The goal, she never reached, because happiness can not in principle be the goal. It is a process, not a result. But Russian women are different: "The camel two humps, because life - the struggle." She was all the time needed to bring some sacrifice. "Beauty requires sacrifice". "Over the relationship to work." "Motherhood - heavy, but honorable work." "Women should ..." Russian woman wants to be like a kitty, but in fact it is a porcupine: just that - and it bristle needle guarding against this cruel, heartless world. And you can not say that it is to blame: being determines consciousness.

But we can say with certainty that the Russian woman did not want to change. It really know nothing about and, more importantly, does not want to work on themselves, not willing to admit their problems and seriously deal with the causes and effects. She wants to read the low-standard books like "How to marry a foreigner and be happy", which is written in plain language: sly and manipulate, dominate and humiliate. That is, do not change anything in yourself, keep doing what you know how already.

And you know, what is most striking? At the same time Russian women believe that they - the most-most: the most beautiful in the world, the best wife, and Russian border has long precipitated crowd of foreigners with wedding rings in their teeth. And very surprised when it turns out that "foreign nedozhenschiny" - ugly, unkempt, daring to demand equal partnership - for some reason were again more desirable than they are perfect Russian wife. How so?!
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